Another interesting and thoughtful week. My Nepali language teacher gave me the initial Nepali name of "Bhuddimaya" which if said correctly could mean wisdom but if said with the wrong emPHasis on the wrong syLLable (yep, just quoted that movie), means old lady. The good news is the Nepalese people I spoke to got a great laugh this past week as I tried to say my name, the bad news is I do not know how to say it correctly, so I just asked to change it. My new name then became chulbule, meaning small goat, implying someone who is chatty and always moving around (later found out to mean naughty). My teacher laughed a lot and hugged me as she gave it to me, which one would think would imply a good name, but as I slowly started telling local Nepalese people what it was, they were just laughing, no hugging, so it may be time to just stick with Sophie. Finally, a girl in the village we visited gave me the name Imani, which was the name of a princess I am told so that sounds like a safer bet to me.
The big adventure of this week was bungee jumping off of a bridge about 4 hours from here. Ten of us went and it was quite an exhillerating experience. I went last in my group and spent a half an hour on a bridge with 10 Nepali men, 2 girls from China, and 2 from India. We all did not know each other but had this commonality of potentially jumping to our deaths in the upcoming minutes. There is nothing like a little fear to connect everyone real fast. I suddenly pretended to know meditation as I led a small exercise that people actually followed. We started singing (okay I started singing) "I'm not afraid, I'm not afraid, to take a stand.." and the boys started singing a Nepali song. By the end we were all cheering for each other and there is nothing like standing at the edge of a bridge as 10 random people shout Sophie, Sophie! The empowering moment was slightly interrupted by the man in charge who could see my attempted confidence and properly shut it down with the comment "Great day to fly, even better day to die"....but overall it was completely worth the fear and the free falling feeling is one I highly recommend.
Yesterday we made our way to one of the villages that 7 people will be working at, Mahadebesi. We danced with the women's group, visited a school, and saw many other products of all of the past volunteer group's work. As we watched how far the village has come, I wondered what work was still left to be done and what could I personally provide that hadn't been thought of already. When we visited the stone quarry, one of the women asked us, " What are you here to actually do? Or are you just here to take pictures?" After spending a day going to so many ceremonies in which everyone was clapping and explaining all of the wonderful things people have done it was a slight slap in the face, but a very honest question that caused many in the group to think about their true purpose here. Hopefully as we actually start working in the villages the answers will become clearer but regardless the village was a beautiful place with lots of strength and lots of potential for growth which was exciting for them to show and for all of us to see.
The big adventure of this week was bungee jumping off of a bridge about 4 hours from here. Ten of us went and it was quite an exhillerating experience. I went last in my group and spent a half an hour on a bridge with 10 Nepali men, 2 girls from China, and 2 from India. We all did not know each other but had this commonality of potentially jumping to our deaths in the upcoming minutes. There is nothing like a little fear to connect everyone real fast. I suddenly pretended to know meditation as I led a small exercise that people actually followed. We started singing (okay I started singing) "I'm not afraid, I'm not afraid, to take a stand.." and the boys started singing a Nepali song. By the end we were all cheering for each other and there is nothing like standing at the edge of a bridge as 10 random people shout Sophie, Sophie! The empowering moment was slightly interrupted by the man in charge who could see my attempted confidence and properly shut it down with the comment "Great day to fly, even better day to die"....but overall it was completely worth the fear and the free falling feeling is one I highly recommend.
Yesterday we made our way to one of the villages that 7 people will be working at, Mahadebesi. We danced with the women's group, visited a school, and saw many other products of all of the past volunteer group's work. As we watched how far the village has come, I wondered what work was still left to be done and what could I personally provide that hadn't been thought of already. When we visited the stone quarry, one of the women asked us, " What are you here to actually do? Or are you just here to take pictures?" After spending a day going to so many ceremonies in which everyone was clapping and explaining all of the wonderful things people have done it was a slight slap in the face, but a very honest question that caused many in the group to think about their true purpose here. Hopefully as we actually start working in the villages the answers will become clearer but regardless the village was a beautiful place with lots of strength and lots of potential for growth which was exciting for them to show and for all of us to see.